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Let me call you back.

By Tim Bremel ( Contact )   July 28, 2008

Yes, I have a cell phone. This business sort of dictates it. But frankly, I liked being able to be away from work when I wasn't getting paid.

Those days are gone, and I'm okay with that. What I'm less okay with are the folks with cell phones glued to their ears in just about every location and situation they are in... at the store, on an airplane, on the bus, at a restaurant -- even in the bathroom.

Overheard at the fair this year: "I'm walking over to the barn right now".

"I'll meet you at the ferris wheel".

"I'm gonna eat lunch".

Plus a slew of young folks trying to text while walking down the street.

Are these truly emergencies that require the immediate notification of another party in the midst of a crowd? I guess its not as bad in an open air public place like the fair (unless you happen to be following them - as many people cannot walk and talk (or text)well at the same time).

Frankly, I just don't want to know that much about most folks' personal lives. I don't have a desire to know what you ate for lunch, where your boyfriend last kissed you, where you got your newest tattoo or when you're next "hooking up" with someone.

During the flight for the last WCLO cruise, at least half the plane simultaneously flipped out their cell phones as soon as the wheels stopped moving and everyone had the same message. "Well, we just landed".

Thanks, I hadn't noticed.

I know folks have rides to coordinate and relatives to visit with. But isn't there a more private corner of the airport for both you and myself to enjoy our individual thoughts and conversations? That extra five minutes you'll save by calling from the plane before you get off can't possibly be that important.

We got along for a long time talking face to face with each other. Maybe its a good ritual to stay current with. And when a cell call interrupts that actual personal interaction - there are five words that are worth their weight in gold: "Let me call you back".

reader COMMENTS (5)
wjbecky
Aug 2, 2008 at 7:28 a.m.
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so - I'm a cell phone abuser, but not a people abuser so my call is given the "hold on a minute" while I talk with the person who is waiting on me - most of the time. BUT I am guilty at the drive thru (be it the bank or fast food or coffee) because I think it's a "safer" time to talk in my car.

hannah
Jul 31, 2008 at 3:18 p.m.
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oh BTW- get off your damn phone in the car!!! or get wireless. talking on phone while smoking and trying to drive and NOT paying any attention. i will stop with my rant now and not even get into eye witness details!

hannah
Jul 31, 2008 at 3:06 p.m.
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tim agree!!!!
ray agree here to . Im in sales and they come to get help and I FEEL RUDE waiting for them to get off the phone!!!

I am guilty of the grocery shopping phone call to ask "if i missed anything on the list" but not just to chit chat!! That is how i prefer most of my calling for information. my ave cell time is about 150 minutes a month which average to 5 minutes a day. that includes calles to WCLO you know trying to win stuff and talking to Phyliss at k&w!!

ray53511
Jul 30, 2008 at 6:20 p.m.
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I find it annoying and disrespectful that people can't end a conversation for 5 minutes. I have witnessed people expect to be waited on while chatting on their phone, witnessed Public safety walking the fair hold conversations that shoulda be confidental, drivers trying to txt and drive, jus to name a few. Any thoughts?

rstricker
Jul 29, 2008 at 3:21 p.m.
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I have been guilty of talking on the phone at the grocery store. But, I try to look ashamed as I do it.

Does that help?

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